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Carly:
an Ohioan folk punk nerd feminist and all around (wannabe) badass currently living in the east bay. Just another boring white, cis, middle-class girl who likes to read, travel, craft, engage in activism, learn, laugh, and hang out with her dog, Taco, and her fiance, Grant. BGSU alumni/SFSU grad student. Apparently now writes in the third person.

my etsy shop: radicallycharmed

my other blogs:
twotenandahalf,
bloglikeits1999,
puppiesandpiggies

"I'll call you on your shit, please call me on mine. Then we can grow together, and make this shit-hole planet better in time."





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CALENDAR

Posted 2 months ago | 2,501 notes | via

Hung out with Maddy all day, had good sex, took a shower and discussed Palestine, took out the dog and discussed our sexualities

Good night.

Posted 2 months ago | 5 notes

wishcandy:

Buns & Burger Love

by wishcandy

Posted 4 months ago | 1,003 notes | via

melissafabello:

Why I’m Not Here for Sex-Positivity without Critical Analysis

I get a lot of people asking me to explain sex-positivity, usually under the assumption that I identify as sex-positive. Which I don’t. I prefer to call myself sex-critical because that’s actually what I stand for. The problem for me is the way that a lot of people do sex-positivity – namely, without a critical analysis component. And I want to talk about that.

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Posted 4 months ago | 173 notes | via | ©
i-suck-dick:

Just girly things xo

(PS ITS NOT JUST GIRLY THINGS OTHER PEOPLE CAN PAINT THEIR NAILS TOO) but I just wanted to reblog this so I could tag @moderngirlblitz

i-suck-dick:

Just girly things xo

(PS ITS NOT JUST GIRLY THINGS OTHER PEOPLE CAN PAINT THEIR NAILS TOO) but I just wanted to reblog this so I could tag @moderngirlblitz

Posted 5 months ago | 82,390 notes | via | ©
megadelicious:

thefatgirlblog:

anchorsofasail0r:

rainbowthundercunt:

used one of your pictures as a reference, thought you might like it :) 
I fucking LOVE IT! Thank you so much! ~RainbowTC

Oh my god, I’m in LOVE with this.

Ah! This is so so so perfect!

oh my goodness.

megadelicious:

thefatgirlblog:

anchorsofasail0r:

rainbowthundercunt:

used one of your pictures as a reference, thought you might like it :) 

I fucking LOVE IT! Thank you so much! ~RainbowTC

Oh my god, I’m in LOVE with this.

Ah! This is so so so perfect!

oh my goodness.

Posted 6 months ago | 3,986 notes | via | ©

thievinggenius:

Done by Jessica Swaffer.

Posted 6 months ago | 2,210 notes | via | ©

wellheld:

bluemantle:

Recently my grandmother found out I’m queer. Her response was to tell me that she disapproves of me living with my “friend” (i.e. my girlfriend) and that I should give up my vile queer ways and become a Christian (Lol). She even sent me a bible.  Here are its remains, which I made into black-out poetry.

Poem 1: Bisexual (from Leviticus 19:9)— “Have sexual relations with her.  Have sexual relations with him.  Have sexual relations with both a woman and a man.  Have sexual relations with yourself. Vomit on everyone who does not respect you.”

Poem 2: Fisting (from Judges 8:5)— “water/ lap the water/ drink/go down to drink/your hands/go down/I give into your hands/go down/encouraged/down/on the seashore/the whole hand/your hand/inside/I get to the edge/and shout/grasping/crying out/Beth/Beth/Beth/Beth/Beth/God/I came”

Poem 3: A Letter to the Exiles (from Jeremiah 28:13) — “Ze said: ‘Do not let lies name you, nor harm your heart. Gather. Raise the sword against them. They scorn and reproach, for they have not listened— again and again have not listened.’ “

Poem 4: Child (from Ezekiel 16:22) — “Your father and your mother rubbed salt in. No one looked on you with pity or had compassion enough for you, for on the day you were born you were despised. Live! Grow.  I looked at you and saw you were enough.”

Poem 5: Father (from Ezekiel 16:22) — “You never adored us. You became very angry. You took some out on us. Your sons and daughters were not enough? You slaughtered— in all your detestable practices— our youth.”

Poem 6: Misandry (from Acts 27:41) — “Dangerous men should be broken.”

omg beautiful

hellyeahscarleteen:

thismighthurt:

SAFER SEX UTILITY BELT TO KEEP YOUR SEX SAFER.

We love this illustration Izzy did for us so much, except for the part that now we all want one of these.  WE WANT IT SO BAD.

hellyeahscarleteen:

thismighthurt:

SAFER SEX UTILITY BELT TO KEEP YOUR SEX SAFER.

We love this illustration Izzy did for us so much, except for the part that now we all want one of these.  WE WANT IT SO BAD.

Posted 7 months ago | 3,052 notes | via | ©
jewdithbuttler:

girlsgetbusyzine:

Submitted by unfriendlyjewishhottie
My submission to a zine about female sexuality.

Remember when I wrote this?

jewdithbuttler:

girlsgetbusyzine:

Submitted by unfriendlyjewishhottie

My submission to a zine about female sexuality.

Remember when I wrote this?

Posted 7 months ago | 211 notes | via | ©

brooklynwaste:

theogpeepeehermandammit:

Women that actually like these things (I’m a huge fan of choking in the right way and other rough maybe even “debasing” type behavior) are not the problem…we are taught by this industry because we are not taught actual sex education, but yes…CONSENT is the key. You don’t assume it’s okay to do these things unless that desire is expressed or spoken about. Just because you likes sex doesn’t mean you are just some fuck doll that can be tossed about without any consideration for your needs or wants.

it’s so true! i can honestly say that i convinced myself to like a lot of acts during sex because of porn, and because my past partners wanted to do that, but it is not what i necessarily wanted. i learned to actually analyze what my likes and dislikes outside of porn were and it made it much easier for me to communicate my needs. i like sex but i also am a person, and just recognizing the behavior of guys because of porn when it comes to sex; ugh this shit is life changing.

Happy valentines day…

Happy valentines day…

Posted 8 months ago | 2 notes
marcosfrackles:

i know what i want for my birthday

marcosfrackles:

i know what i want for my birthday

Posted 8 months ago | 19,633 notes | via | ©
I’ve encountered people constantly assuming sex is good and that having sex is just something you do in healthy relationships. This creates a situation where, hating sex is a character flaw caused by those terrible sex-negative tropes society presses on you, and obviously only Bad People don’t consent to sex.
That’s rape culture. This is what environments that assume sex is unambiguously a good thing do. Saying, “It’s consensual sex that’s good” doesn’t actually fix the problem. It just creates a situation where you must be consenting to sex, because if you aren’t, you’re not having enough sex and then you’re “sex-negative”.
See, it only fixes a problem where you’re like, “Well I don’t really want to do this right now”. It does not do anything at all to help people who find sex painful. It does nothing at all to help a person who doesn’t want sex, but thinks they do because it’s been so heavily normativized they have to have sex, and have to have it in this specific way. All the, “But make sure it’s consensual!” thing does is tells the person, “Well maybe if you don’t want sex this time it’s okay, but remember you still must be having it some of the time!”
See, to actually fight rape culture you need to say “Sex is always optional. You are never obligated to have sex.” You must always be concerned with consent, and that means you must accept that the answer may very well always be no, despite the fact there’s this belief sex is the greatest thing ever.
And if someone never wants sex, then sex can’t really be a good thing to them, because it’s always unwanted.

Sex Positivity is Rape Culture in Disguise (via youlittlearsonist)

Really like this. We need to find ways of transforming real sex positivity to promote choice in sex, not uncritically promote sex itself.

(via swankivy)


disabledpeoplearesexy:

radically-disabled:

queerfatfemme:

Super great list!

takebacksexuality:

I have been doing some research on sex and disability, and thought I would share some of the links I have found. This will be useful for me in the future as a resource, and hopefully to others too.


Disability and Sex General Links

TOO AMAZING FOR WORDS

Huge amazing list of links! Have not read all of them so don’t know if there might be some stuff that’s not so good in there, but reblogging because lots are likely to be useful for people who follow.








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